KIM SHARES THROWBACK PIC TO CELEBRATE KHLOE'S BIRTHDAY

Today is Khloe’s 31st birthday and Kim shared this beautiful throwback and wrote
My loko Koko!!! Happy Birthday to the best sister in the world! I love you so much!!!! Words can’t even describe how beautiful your soul is!”
Love Khloe too…

MY FRIEND, MY SISTER!!!

I grew up not knowing who my father was....

I was brought up single handedly by my mother though she remarried after some years as I grew up & later had 3kids younger than me.
My step dad was a drunk half d time & nice when he was sober enough to be..
Suffice to say he depended on my mom's little earning from petty trade & as a 'washer woman' It was rough growing up nd I vowed to be better
I struggled thru secondary school & even gained admission into a polytechnic...it was God's greatest gift for me.
It was there I met a Shola, who saved me from some guys in school on d way home when I could have been molested cos according to plp, I am beautiful...I never saw myself as one cos I could never afford all sort of things used by ladies to look beautiful.. So I guess am a natural beauty
Crystal & I became best of friends. She took me to her home, introduced me to her parents nd she practically sponsored me thru school.

In my final year, I met a guy through her, who was a family friend of her family. They were tight. I even thought they were dating at some point or must have had something together once...The guy had been out of the country for a while and was actually crystal's  elder brother's friend
I started sating the guy and 5yrs later (2008),we got married & traveled out of the country. Crystal  was in and out of relationships...she seemed to be unlucky in love..

All d while we remained friends and sisters & our bond got tighter nd stronger..
She comes to visit nd do business  in the UK where I resided with my husband. We have just a child, a boy, a copy of my husband. There was peace...until
Crystal was in another relationship and was jilted some weeks into marriage after all preparations done. Sadly!!
She was devastated and almost killed herself.

It was d most natural thing for me to invite her to come stay with me in London. She was with us for about 2months until she decided to head back to Nigeria.
8mths later, crystal gave birth to a beautiful girl for a new man she just met...
Out of wedlock...I was so at this but she said she decided to get pregnant & work at marriage later.
She came with her baby several time to UK to visit wt us and all was well. Though the man in her life was never able to as he was busy at work. She came twice
Her baby was 3yrs last year & they were both on holiday in London.. Shola stayed in an hotel despite my persuasions.

8mths after & My friend gave birth to a son...I was ecstatic for her & even encouraged her to get married to d man.

I couldn't live UK for a while & my friend couldn't come to visit as I usual. She didn't send pix of baby as she was advised against this by her pastor.

3mths ago, I eventually came to Nigeria for d first time since I left..& Now am pregnant wt my 2nd child.

1st point of call was my friend..
I went to see my friend & behold was a copy of my son...Shola wasn't expecting me...she was shocked as I was...f
I needed no one to tell me this.
Same birthmark, same spot as my son & husband.

He was my husbands son...my son's brother!
I fainted...
Woke up & lost my baby!
I was broken hearted.

Now after much stories..confirmation...apologies...
I am confused

What do I do?
I need HELP

FAKE FRIENDS

Real friends are hard to find, that will have your back, through the good times and the bad times, come sun come rain,fake friends are everywhere  they pretend they truly care about you and your problems so you can trust, but when given the opportunity, will stab you on you back without thinking twice them.

 I made a mistake of seeing a fake friend as a real one cost me my relationship. I met her when I got into the university, the very first day, I was young and naive, I had no friend, she came in a few weeks before me, so she knew most places already, she helped me through out the clearance period, since she had done her's, over time we became close, we would talk about anything and everything, I felt like I've found the sister I never had, I just started dating a guy, everything was going smoothly and fine, then we had a quarrel, I ran to her(sophie) and complained to her, she comforted me, told me what to do, the issue in my relationship was resolved.
Fast forward six months, I observed that my boyfriend who wouldn't go a day without talking to me, no longer calls or texts I complained to Sophie and she told me to ignore him and move on from the relationship, it was unlike her to tell me to give up on something that meant a lot to me, I ignored her advice and tried talking with my boyfriend to know what was wrong, finally he opened up to me that, he's been hearing so many things about me, how I didn't love him, and wasn't serious about him, and he is in love with another, I felt hurt and wanted to run to my friend Sophie, because at that moment she was the only one that could comfort me, I just had to ask him who told him all that, he told me Sophie, and that she was the best thing that has happened to him, and he was grateful to her for exposing the real person I was to him, the pain I felt from hearing she was the one who betrayed me was greater than what I was feeling initially, this was someone I considered my sister, took her home, introduced to my family, I regretted the day I met her.

Today I dailed your number.

Each passing day, I crave to hear your voice, your laughter, feel your touch, and see your smile, but each day that passes I realize how far you are from me, if I had my way, you'd still be in my arms, not miles away from me, it wasn't my wish to give up on us but yours, against my wish I agreed because you can't force anyone to be with you no matter how much you want them to stay, crying and wishing that a miracle might happen that will change their mind, the thought of you been in another's arm kills me slowly, but then again you'd be happy with them and that I can live with, because your happiness matters more to me.
Was I not good enough? Was I not worth fighting for? Was my love not sufficient for you? My questions remains unanswered, seeing other people happy with their loved ones hurts, not feeling that tight feeling in my stomach I felt each time I saw you, I miss it. I miss crying and falling asleep in your arms it was my most favorite thing in the world,knowing in your arms am safe, in your arms nothing could touch me, I never knew the true meaning of pain till you walked out on me leaving me no choice, each passing day I pray for time to go faster so I could sleep cause that's the only time I am at ease.
Today I dialed your number to check on you, to hear you say you miss me, but couldn't press the call button, sometimes I do this  upto 30 times in a day, but today I dialed your number for the last time, because I realized I no longer mean anything to you.

KARRUECHE GETS A LAWYER, AND FILES RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINT CHRIS BROWN!!!!!????

After yesterday's fight between Chris Brown and his ex, Karrueche, there are now reports that she has hired a lawyer and is looking to get a restraining order against Chris Brown. MTO reports below...

Here's what we're being told by a person close to Karrueche "Chris is very unpredictable, he's nice one day and then mad the next. It's not his fault he has (bipolar disorder).

The tipster continued, "Last time he came into contact with Karrueche, he frightened her and he broke out her window. Chris promised to stay away from her and she's just holding him to that promise. The restraining order is just (a little) insurance that he keeps his word."We're told Karrueche's attorneys will make their filing this week in LA county. Talk about breakup drama!!!!

CHEATER CHEATER

Why do people cheat? This is one of the most common question that is been asked today when it comes to relationship, marriages, it's surprising that infidelity is actually not uncommon among men and women, infact survey estimates that almost one fourth of all marriages and relationships  experience infidelity at some point, the results was gotten from those who admitted  to it or were caught.
I have read so many blogs, write ups, articles on reasons why people cheat,and I view them as flimsy excuses why people won't close their legs or trying to justify the act, there is no reason on earth why anyone should cheat on their partner, none whatsoever, if you tired of the relationship or marriage you walk out the door, instead of  hindering or ruining someone else's happiness, take the case of a lady who dated her spouse for 12 years and they eventually got married, happy ending right? That's what I thought too, but wait, hold that though, it recently came to light that he got his side chick (I like calling them chicken) pregnant not only that, he's been with this side chicken for 8 whole years, not 1 not 2 but 8, that's just the height of betrayal, am not saying or implying that it's just the guys that do it, the girls also do it, I personally know a lady who dates at least 3 guys at a time, I keep wondering where she gets the energy,dating one guy is stressful enough.
Cheating is just unfair on all levels, it's just not right, I mean if the sex isn't good in your relationship, and you feel there's no solution, or you into money but your partner doesn't have please and please pack your bags and give them the chance to meet someone amazing that deserves their love. Being faithful in a relationship is not mandatory it's not by force, no one is holding a gun to your head to say you must be faithful, but when you are in love, you won't kiss another person and not feel the taste of your partner's tears, you won't take off the clothes of another without seeing their heart breaking and bleeding, cheating is a choice not a mistake,
You do not love someone who you cheat on or plan to cheat on, keep the I love you out of your mouth and save it for that one person you would never risk loosing just for one good night.
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There are faithful guys and girls out there, to that handsome guy out there that's faithful I will find you, and I will date you CAPICE???

What do you think about cheating?

TGIF!!!!

WOOHOOOOOOOO it Friday BABY, it's my most important day of the week, the day to relieve the stress, forget your worries( my worries actually) , let down your hair and shake your bum bum, I get to hang out with my girls, check out hot guys, have a few drinks okay maybe more than few drinks, I deserve it after all I've being through this week, I sure do deserve it, if you haven't made plans for the weekend, just go with the flow and thank God its Friday, a friend of mine is in town and we are going to shake our bum bums, what are your plans for the weekend???

CHECK OUT KIM'S K WEST NEW RIDE

The reality star pictured driving her brand new Range Rover SUV, which cost about $110k, to her step dad/mum Caitlyn Jenner's home in Malibu yesterday. Just two months ago, she bought a $400k Rolls Royce, I believe in if you have the money spend it. More photos after the cut...

KYLlIE JENNER PLANS TO ELOPE WITH TYGA SOON?????

Insiders claim Tyga and his underage girlfriend Kylie Jenner are planning to elope as soon as she is of age, which is in two months time…

From Radar Online

RO has learned that Kylie Jenner plans to tie the knot with Tyga a lot sooner than expected. “Right now their plan is to get hitched in August,” which is when Jenner will finally turn 18, an insider tells Radar. Once they are official, Jenner and 25-year-old Tyga want to get a fresh start away from all the drama.

“They are making plans to quit LA, for a brand new life away from her family and his baby mamma, Blac Chyna,” notes the insider, revealing that a move to New York City or even Europe are among the possibilities they’ve kicked around.

“Kylie is done with the constant criticism and micro-management from her family, especially Kim, and she’s dead set on going her own way as soon as possible,” adds the insider.

LATEST FASHION TREND/ THE UNDIE SHORTS

The time of bikinis, sunshine, shirtless men, heat, is almost here popularly known as SUMMER, where we relax, have fun, no stress, hang out with friends all day, wear clothes that we couldn't wear during the winter. There's a new trend which have been tried out by Kendall Jenner, Beyonce and Chrissy Telgen,its the undie Shorts, they are basically denim granny panties (term culled from Elle)

Kendall Jenner wore the fancy embroidered undie Shorts with matching jacket, Beyonce wore the denim undie shorts and Chrissy Telgen wore the denim undie Shorts.


Who wore it best?
And would you try this trend out?

MY ANTI-BUCKET LIST!!!

 We are all familiar with the concept of the bucket list, the list of dreams, goals, aspirations, it has gone viral in a couple of years, but this is an anti-bucket list my own anti-bucket list, the things I don't want to do or I have done and won't ever want to do again because life is too short to repeat what doesn't work for you. Having an anti-bucket list removes unnecessary pressure.

1. Swim in the ocean, I am not doing it, am too scared of sharks to even consider it and by the way I can't swim.
2. Go skydiving NEVER!!! I have phobia for heights, not doing it, not even thinking about it.
3. Go mountain climbing, my fear of heights also covers this one.
4. Run a race, I broke my leg the last time I did, I am not doing it again EVER.
5. Get over my love for cakes, it's not happening, not now, not tomorrow, never happening.
6.  Don't want to be a spy, don't you watch spy movies, they loose their love ones, I ain't ready to loose anyone of my annoying brothers yet, so NO thank you.
7. I will never disregard my parents advice again, they are right 99.9% of the time. 
8. You betrayed my trust, you not getting it back don't bother trying booboo.
9. Never going to force anybody to be with me, its not just right and it's not happening. 
10. Repair any electrical appliance myself, Electricity is not meant to be tampered with by amateurs like me.
11. Never going to stop loving Justin Bieber and one direction. 
12. Unsubscribe to +Shirley B. Eniang videos, they are life saving.

These are the ones am certain of for now, tell me one of the things on your anti-bucket lisr

WHAT IS IN MY MAKE UP BAG????

My room is one giant make up bag, i love going through my friends makeup collections checking out what they just got and what difference it made to their entire make up routine, the way a dog is man's best friend, so is makeup a lady's best friend my brothers are always returning lip sticks that miraculously found its way to their rooms. Make up is Bae, I will focus on what is currently in my bag.

MASCARA. I have very short lashes, I get teased a lot about how short they are and unfortunately am not a huge fan of false lashes, I tried it once thought, it was lovely but I haven't being bold enough yet to try again. The Mac Mascara it works wonders for me it leaves my very very short lashes looking longer, fuller and me feeling sexier.

EYE LINER (LIQUID): Am a huge fan of the winged eyeliner, I have tried tons of different eyeliners but most of them just cleans off mysteriously leaving me looking like willy wonka, but after searching far and wide, high and low, under the mountains and sea, a friend recommended the Mac liquid eye liner, it lasts all day.

LIP STICKS AND GLOSS: They are simply the best, I have so many lipsticks and gloss, I have count, but these are my favorites, even when I decide to leave my face bare, I use lip gloss. 

FOUNDATIONS: I have two, Mary Kay liquid foundation and black opal stick foundation, they do their job very well and am satisfied, because I experience break outs a lot after using foundation, I even had to just eliminate it from my routine entirely till I fell in love with these two.

POWDER: I used the iman loosed powder to set my makeup

What's your favourite thing in your make up bag you can't do without?

WHAT ARE YOU ADDICTED TO????

Have you always wondered what you are addicted to? That one thing you cannot do without? We all have it, ranging from phone to computers, the Internet, clothes, some have very weird ones, I have a friend who was addicted to dust, she loves the smell of it, I can't believe I actually tried it once to find out what she enjoys from it, it was a very dusty experience, thankfully she doesn't like it that much again.

I am addicted to cakes

I am open about it, I think that is a good thing, I consume and devour any cake I come across, once I take a bite,i have to finish the whole thing. I experienced my first FOODGASM from eating cake, sponge cakes are my favorite, it's soft, moist fluffy, I can go on and on about it, then there's the red velvet cake, chocolate cake, cream filled, cake bombs, cupcakes those little heaven on earth, I just had to learn how to bake so that I can satisfy the hunger for cakes anytime I want, luckily for me I ain't adding weight .

What's your secret addiction ? I promise not to tell

First Post

Am super excited because....... this is my first post on debby's corner, my name is Debby's which is obvious already, I love love telling people my thoughts, and I was advised to start a blog, so instead of constantly disturbing my friends and family members about the latest trend, celebrity gossip, and so many others, instead I will disturb you guys at the same time try not to and before I forget I have four brothers, three older ones and one annoying younger brother who takes delight and pleasure in disturbing me but I love him to death.

Another thing you guys should know is that am a terrible dancer, I can't dance to save a life, soo tell me about yourself a little something