Monday, 15 June 2015

CHEATER CHEATER

Why do people cheat? This is one of the most common question that is been asked today when it comes to relationship, marriages, it's surprising that infidelity is actually not uncommon among men and women, infact survey estimates that almost one fourth of all marriages and relationships  experience infidelity at some point, the results was gotten from those who admitted  to it or were caught.
I have read so many blogs, write ups, articles on reasons why people cheat,and I view them as flimsy excuses why people won't close their legs or trying to justify the act, there is no reason on earth why anyone should cheat on their partner, none whatsoever, if you tired of the relationship or marriage you walk out the door, instead of  hindering or ruining someone else's happiness, take the case of a lady who dated her spouse for 12 years and they eventually got married, happy ending right? That's what I thought too, but wait, hold that though, it recently came to light that he got his side chick (I like calling them chicken) pregnant not only that, he's been with this side chicken for 8 whole years, not 1 not 2 but 8, that's just the height of betrayal, am not saying or implying that it's just the guys that do it, the girls also do it, I personally know a lady who dates at least 3 guys at a time, I keep wondering where she gets the energy,dating one guy is stressful enough.
Cheating is just unfair on all levels, it's just not right, I mean if the sex isn't good in your relationship, and you feel there's no solution, or you into money but your partner doesn't have please and please pack your bags and give them the chance to meet someone amazing that deserves their love. Being faithful in a relationship is not mandatory it's not by force, no one is holding a gun to your head to say you must be faithful, but when you are in love, you won't kiss another person and not feel the taste of your partner's tears, you won't take off the clothes of another without seeing their heart breaking and bleeding, cheating is a choice not a mistake,
You do not love someone who you cheat on or plan to cheat on, keep the I love you out of your mouth and save it for that one person you would never risk loosing just for one good night.
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There are faithful guys and girls out there, to that handsome guy out there that's faithful I will find you, and I will date you CAPICE???

What do you think about cheating?

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