MY WORST MISTAKE PART 2!!!!

Gabe soon woke up, ignored my greeting, washed his

mouth and left the house without a word. I was terribly

scared because of the way he looked at me. I knew it was

just a matter of seconds before he kicks us out of his

room. I sobbed quietly as i lamented my fate. “My mates

are all with their parents, enjoying their lives and

planning for a brighter future. Here i’m suffering like a

refugee” i reasoned with tears. “only if i had listened to

him months ago and terminated my baby, i wouldn’t be

suffering in this manner” i said to myself bitterly. But

deep down in my heart i equally knew i rejected to do his

bidding because i couldn’t bear such guilt which would

have been terrible and unbearable. Winnie’s loud cry

soon calmed me. I quietly carried her, changed her

napkin, breastfed and sang a lullaby for her.

 He came in that moment eyeing us. “have you packed all your

things?” he asked coldly. I swallowed hard and stared at

him pleadingly. 

“please don’t do this to us” i begged, “we

are already managing well, i’ll start a trade very soon” i

added. He scratched his head uneasily and again eyed me

murderously, “do you call this life eeh? Abeg shut that

your dirty mouth” he barked, before grabbing all my

clothes which he dumped inside an old large bag, fetched

winnie’s things and equally dumped them in it. “here is

two hundred and fifty Naira {N250} it’s your transport

fare to your parents house, i have tried enough for you, i

won’t kill myself doing it mtcheeew” he muttered and

threw the money at me. Tears instantly fell

uncontrollably from my eyes, i had no where to go. I was

doomed, I dropped winnie on the bed, knelt and begged

him “please Gabe, please” i begged again and again,

but instead of my pleas to calm him, it infuriated him

tremendously. He slapped me hard, grabbed the bag and

threw it out of his room. “i will do the same to you and

this baby if you don’t leave peacefully” he threatened. I

stared at him heartbroken, and hungry, cursing the day i

granted him access to my body. The story of my love life

with Nnamdi really is a long one. An affair which never

should have happened in the first place had i ignored my

heart, because he really had nothing to offer me, yet i

foolishly fell in love with him. A very stupid teenage love

affair which i now regret. Love dosen’t work in an empty

stomach, neither does it work in an unsecured

environment. Gabe wasn’t in love with me any longer

because circumstances changed and he only saw me as a

burden to his miserable life. He totally ignored Winnie’s

cries, my pleas and our neighbours preachings as he

pushed us out of his house that fateful morning. A day i

was supposed to be happy because it was my birthday.

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MY WORST MISTAKE PART 1

I woke up from sleep with a very terrible headache, while
hunger and fear occupied the rest of my body. Gabe who
was lying by my side instantly coughed, startling me. I
rubbed my eyes, got up from bed and smiled at little winnie
who was sleeping peaceful on her
cot. That fateful day was my 19th birthday, but instead of
being the happiest day of my life, it brought great
suspence, fear and sorrow with it. It was equally the last
day Gabe, my boyfriend and also little Winnie’s father
gave me to pack out from his room.
Our relationship suddenly turned sour when i got pregnant
for him. He never wanted me to keep the baby, but i refused
to terminate it leaving him with no choice than to accept
responsibility,when my parents threw me
out of their house. I was in SS3 when it happened, while he
was just a struggling brick layer and a motor mechanic
apprentice. We both were from poor backgrounds which
truly worsened everything. I was then left at his mercy, and
out of frustration he never allowed a moment to pass
without reminding me
of the hardship i was causing him and how unlucky i was.
Those were the moments i felt like killing myself. I admit i
made a terribly mistake by having unprotected sex and
getting pregnant for him, but harming my innocent baby
was what i really couldn’t do. I managed and struggled with
determination until i gave
birth to my little girl on 21st december 1988. Nnamdi on his
part grudgingly supported me by providing the little
he had which he never did without complaining, but the love
and joy my little girl brought into my life sustained
and gave me hope. As soon as little winnie was born, he
gave me six months to leave his house. At first i thought it was one of his
numerous careless comments, but as June slowly drew
near, he began singing it almost everyday in my ears.
Leaving me confused, demoralized and unhappy.
It really wasn’t as if he was spending much on us. I only
ate twice daily while little winnie survived on my breast
milk and few ‘Tins’ of baby milk concerned neighbours
especially our land-lady do give us.
The previous day {21st June}, he almost strangled me
simply because i begged him to allow us stay few more
months with him.
I had no money on me, no family to seek because to
them i was good as dead. Not even when i took little
Winnie to them months after she was born did their
mind change.
I murmured some prayers as i awaited my fate,
wondering where to go, when he eventually wakes up
and throws us out.
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• Watch out for Part 2..

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TO LOVE AND BE LOVED

It's easier for you to love someone than for them to love you in return, we all know the thrilling experience of falling in love, swooning, their voice makes you melt, leaves butterflies dancing in your stomach, when they smile, the whole world smiles with them just because you love them, but being loved is a whole different thing, knowing there is someone who makes your happiness their priority, who goes the extra mile to put a smile on your face, you smile, they smile, you cry, they want to wipe those silly tears away, just because they love you.

Unfortunately most times, we don't love the people who love us and the ones we love, doesn't love us in return, this circle goes on and on without ending, it's frustrating when you are trying to make someone see reasons why you love them, it's like pouring water into a basket, complete waste of time, you may catch a grenade for them according to Bruno Mars, jump in front of a train for them, they'd still not appreciate it, I sincerely don't blame those people or have a problem with them because you can't force the heart to love someone. I had a first hand experience with this, there was this guy I loved and cared for, I did everything just to please him, even to the extent of displeasing myself, but yet he didn't even care for me one bit, fast forward one year, I met another guy that loved me but I didn't, he would call, text, visit, care and yet I had no feelings for him, no matter how much I forced myself I couldn't show him the love he deserves, at that moment I realized it was what I was experiencing now, that the first guy was experiencing.

Some people are lucky to fall in love with someone who loves them, everything falls in place, the sun shines brighter, everything is perfect, they can go through thick or thin, just because they love each other, how many people can boast of loving someone, that they know sincerely loves them in return.

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

Love at first sight simply doesn't exist, you can not tell me you fell in love with me the very first time you saw me, it doesn't work that way sweetie, you don't know me, you don't know if am crazy, you don't know the kind of baggages I come with so I simply won't accept it.
I'd agree more with you if you said you were attracted to me the first time you saw me, it might have been the way I walked, the way I talked, the way I behaved, I would believe you and even take an interest in you.
Saying I love you on the first date just isn't it for me, don't expect it from me, I might like you but love on the first date no, when I hear my friends say am heads over heels in love after the first date, I am like please my dear next time don't wear heels if you can't handle it, wear flats instead, so you don't trip and fall. I do believe in love don't get me wrong, but I just don't believe in love at first sight, if I ask you when you knew you were in love with me, and you answer me with the love at first sight line, I am so not going to believe you its that simple.

This is my opinion on love at first sight, I would love to know yours.

ADVICE OF THE WEEK

So true

PAY UP!!!

I don't know how some people just behave, think or feel, like do you have conscience or something, you walked up to someone, pleaded, begged, cried, stalked them because you needed their help with money or few change, they gave you out of the kindness of their heart, pay back it becomes a big problem, you go about spoiling their name saying mean things just because they want their own money back. It never ceases to break my heart when someone complains about a debtor that refuses to pay up, I mean how will you feel if someone does that to you. This act of borrowing, buying without paying has ruined so many, friendship, family, relationship, caused so many fights and quarrels, I simply can't be friends with someone who will take from me without paying back, as a person I do not know how to walk up to someone to tell them pay me back my money, I simply expect the thing that pushed you to come borrow from me to push you to pay back, but because you don't ask they walk about happy like argh she has forgotten to ask me for the money, NO I didn't forget, I simply expected you to return it without me demanding for it.

This is the reason I don't give out money I can't let go, I'd rather dash you the money than borrow it out. My friend Stella called me the other day crying about how she borrowed a huge sum of money to a friend of hers since last year, now she's in need of the money, paying back becomes a big problem, the friend no longer picks her call, blocked her on Facebook, and all other social networks, she even went to the extent of telling their mutual friends that she (stella) has been going around spoiling her name because of a little sum of money she lent her, I mean why are some human beings like this, that's just too much drama. 

BEING STINGY OR BEING PRUDENT???

(To Whom It May Concern)....especially  Naija Ladies !!!
NOT ALL MEN ARE STINGY, AND NOT ALL MEN ARE BROKE! ..Rather, THEY ARE ONLY BEING PRUDENT, i.e MANAGING! Its so funny how most Girls "NOT
LADIES", call men STINGY!... Now, Lets break this through..
*If a man can feed himself at least, 2- 3square meal a day,
*If he can clothe himself without borrowing/stealing them,
*If he can Rent an Apartment "No matter how small" without
squat ting, Furnish it to his comfort,,
*If he can Provide for his Family "Parents/ Siblings", and
still Hustles,,,
Tell me, How then is he Broke Or Stingy?
Oh! Because he doesn't spend on you as Much as you see other Girls being Expensively spent on by Players /Married He-Goats, and you expect him to Close
his Account on you, then he's stingy huh?.. Hmmmm! # smh
Well! There's this quote mostly used by
Strong Ambitious women, said "WHAT A MAN CAN DO, A WOMAN CAN DO BETTER".. So tell me, If your man is out there hustling, what are you yourself, doing?,, Just sit, chew gums, chat, Paint face, Look for who to take you out,
And Expect Expensive Provisions as your Provider "ADAMU" he is, abi??,, Sorry to break this to your knowledge, Some You Girls are GREEDY &LAZY if you tag Men as BROKE and STINGY.. You take take take and Not give, and you say,
"Afterall; I give him SEX to his satisfaction",,,then you have given back his deeds??
Oh! And to this SEX is to your own dissatisfaction abi?..
Tell me,, How many of you girls care how your Man lives??,,
How his day goes??,,
How he hustles out there whether in an empty stomach, or
good health??,, How he makes his money??,, Infact, How he
survives??.. Do you even care to know if he Saves??.. because
Saving is very very important in life, as it meets up Set Plans/
Achievements.. Abi u don see where person no get savings dey Build house,
Buy car & live Comfortably?.. Though I'm not Generalizing
here, but only pointing out that you should STOP CALLING MEN BROKE & STINGY,,, because when you go out there yourself and Hustle, then would you Understand what it is to be Prudent.. You can't say these men are not
trying their best on you, Rather, just learn to appreciate the
little they can afford for you.. If you need anything of a
LARGE EXPENSE, please don't hesitate to either ask your
parents for it, Uncle's &Aunts, Or better still, Go work for it
like your Mates are out there working.. Thank you!
(Are u against this post....Yes or no ..oya feel free to drop
your comments)

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