CYBER BULLY

Cyber bullying is common these days on all popular social networks ranging from, Facebook to twitter, to Instagram,it's the use of technology in harassing an individual, cyber bullying us not limited to messages, or texts it can also be a video which a person finds offensive, cyber bullying is by far one of the worst kind of bullying ever, you don't know the person picking on you, do they can't be traced, most of the time they are anonymous. Most people don't really know the damage, cyber bullying causes to an individual, it can lead to loss in appetite, stress, sleepless night, we comes across someone being bullied online then join or laugh cause we think it's funny and entertaining forgetting the damage it does to the person been bullied, I for one haven't bullied anyone online but I do recall laughing to myself when I came across someone been bullied on facebook, I considered it to be funny, karma really does work, the next morning someone on twitter called me ugly, at first I brushed it off my mind, since I know I am not ugly, I logged off, later in the day I logged back in, I saw the attention the tweet received from other Twitter users, I was laughed at, insulted the more, I felt hurt, like maybe I was actually ugly, but then it dawned on me that this is what people who are bullied constantly on the Internet feel each day, from that day onward, when I come across someone been bullied on the net, I send them a positive message, who knows, just maybe it would be what would make their day.

Cyber bullying is not limited to kids or young adult only, older people also do it whether knowingly or unknowingly, as long as you bringing someone else down just to feel good about your self, you already a bully, if you know someone that's been bullied, get them to open up to you, encourage them and make them feel good about their selves, I have come across so many cases of suicides resulting from cyber bullying it's really heartbreaking.

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

Love at first sight simply doesn't exist, you can not tell me you fell in love with me the very first time you saw me, it doesn't work that way sweetie, you don't know me, you don't know if am crazy, you don't know the kind of baggages I come with so I simply won't accept it.
I'd agree more with you if you said you were attracted to me the first time you saw me, it might have been the way I walked, the way I talked, the way I behaved, I would believe you and even take an interest in you.
Saying I love you on the first date just isn't it for me, don't expect it from me, I might like you but love on the first date no, when I hear my friends say am heads over heels in love after the first date, I am like please my dear next time don't wear heels if you can't handle it, wear flats instead, so you don't trip and fall. I do believe in love don't get me wrong, but I just don't believe in love at first sight, if I ask you when you knew you were in love with me, and you answer me with the love at first sight line, I am so not going to believe you its that simple.

This is my opinion on love at first sight, I would love to know yours.

PAY UP!!!

I don't know how some people just behave, think or feel, like do you have conscience or something, you walked up to someone, pleaded, begged, cried, stalked them because you needed their help with money or few change, they gave you out of the kindness of their heart, pay back it becomes a big problem, you go about spoiling their name saying mean things just because they want their own money back. It never ceases to break my heart when someone complains about a debtor that refuses to pay up, I mean how will you feel if someone does that to you. This act of borrowing, buying without paying has ruined so many, friendship, family, relationship, caused so many fights and quarrels, I simply can't be friends with someone who will take from me without paying back, as a person I do not know how to walk up to someone to tell them pay me back my money, I simply expect the thing that pushed you to come borrow from me to push you to pay back, but because you don't ask they walk about happy like argh she has forgotten to ask me for the money, NO I didn't forget, I simply expected you to return it without me demanding for it.

This is the reason I don't give out money I can't let go, I'd rather dash you the money than borrow it out. My friend Stella called me the other day crying about how she borrowed a huge sum of money to a friend of hers since last year, now she's in need of the money, paying back becomes a big problem, the friend no longer picks her call, blocked her on Facebook, and all other social networks, she even went to the extent of telling their mutual friends that she (stella) has been going around spoiling her name because of a little sum of money she lent her, I mean why are some human beings like this, that's just too much drama. 

BEING STINGY OR BEING PRUDENT???

(To Whom It May Concern)....especially  Naija Ladies !!!
NOT ALL MEN ARE STINGY, AND NOT ALL MEN ARE BROKE! ..Rather, THEY ARE ONLY BEING PRUDENT, i.e MANAGING! Its so funny how most Girls "NOT
LADIES", call men STINGY!... Now, Lets break this through..
*If a man can feed himself at least, 2- 3square meal a day,
*If he can clothe himself without borrowing/stealing them,
*If he can Rent an Apartment "No matter how small" without
squat ting, Furnish it to his comfort,,
*If he can Provide for his Family "Parents/ Siblings", and
still Hustles,,,
Tell me, How then is he Broke Or Stingy?
Oh! Because he doesn't spend on you as Much as you see other Girls being Expensively spent on by Players /Married He-Goats, and you expect him to Close
his Account on you, then he's stingy huh?.. Hmmmm! # smh
Well! There's this quote mostly used by
Strong Ambitious women, said "WHAT A MAN CAN DO, A WOMAN CAN DO BETTER".. So tell me, If your man is out there hustling, what are you yourself, doing?,, Just sit, chew gums, chat, Paint face, Look for who to take you out,
And Expect Expensive Provisions as your Provider "ADAMU" he is, abi??,, Sorry to break this to your knowledge, Some You Girls are GREEDY &LAZY if you tag Men as BROKE and STINGY.. You take take take and Not give, and you say,
"Afterall; I give him SEX to his satisfaction",,,then you have given back his deeds??
Oh! And to this SEX is to your own dissatisfaction abi?..
Tell me,, How many of you girls care how your Man lives??,,
How his day goes??,,
How he hustles out there whether in an empty stomach, or
good health??,, How he makes his money??,, Infact, How he
survives??.. Do you even care to know if he Saves??.. because
Saving is very very important in life, as it meets up Set Plans/
Achievements.. Abi u don see where person no get savings dey Build house,
Buy car & live Comfortably?.. Though I'm not Generalizing
here, but only pointing out that you should STOP CALLING MEN BROKE & STINGY,,, because when you go out there yourself and Hustle, then would you Understand what it is to be Prudent.. You can't say these men are not
trying their best on you, Rather, just learn to appreciate the
little they can afford for you.. If you need anything of a
LARGE EXPENSE, please don't hesitate to either ask your
parents for it, Uncle's &Aunts, Or better still, Go work for it
like your Mates are out there working.. Thank you!
(Are u against this post....Yes or no ..oya feel free to drop
your comments)

Source Adeola oye